Years ago when I first moved to a
duplex in Uccle, Belgium, my French landlady, who spoke no English, ordered her
dog around. It returned to the house or followed her or got into her car on
cue. I was embarrassed that the dog understood commands I didn’t.
In the four years I lived there, my
French never improved enough to understand slang or contemporary idiom. As a
consequence, I wasn’t perturbed by the incomprehensible curses of a driver who
thought I had taken his parking spot. Sounds are innocent until attached to
meaning. Therein lies their potential for power.
Recent news reports belie the adage
that “sticks and stones may break my bones, but words will never hurt me.”
Donald Sterling had the misfortune of being secretly recorded saying something
as hurtful as it was politically incorrect. (Whether or not the recording was
an invasion of his privacy hasn’t been an issue.) His quote raged in the media
for days and got him fined and banned by the NBA.
Juan Williams lost his PBS job for
saying he became nervous “if I see people who are in Muslim garb and I think, you
know, they are identifying themselves first and foremost as Muslims.”
Towson University art professor Allen Zaruba was fired for saying in
class that he was “a nigger on the corporate plantation." His unfortunate
word choice landed him out of the job he was bemoaning, a part-time faculty
member without tenure.
Colorado congressman Doug Lamborn made media headlines and apologized
for saying “…I don’t even want to have to be associated with him [the
President]. It’s like touching a tar baby and you get it, you’re stuck, and
you’re a part of the problem…”
Simple words aren’t so simple. Sheryl Sandberg, Chief Operating
Officer of Facebook, is campaigning to ban the word bossy. The word purportedly is a
put-down to young girls and discourages them from taking on leadership roles.
MSNBC’s Morning Joe panel recently discussed slut
slamming. The word slut never had so
much attention. As an aside, our thesaurus is decidedly sexist. It has a host
of terms for a female sensualist, most of them derogatory, while the male
synonyms are not only fewer in number but less disparaging (if at all
disparaging).
The government is getting involved in cleaning up the English language. The terms
citizen and brown bag are no longer used in official documents or discussions
by Seattle city workers. They are to use the terms lunch-and-learn or sack lunch
instead of brown bag. The word citizen is avoided because many people
who live in Seattle are residents, not citizens.
The New York
Post reported in March 2012 that the city’s Department of Education avoids
references to words like dinosaur, birthday, and Halloween on city-issued tests. Dinosaur
suggests evolution, possibly offensive to fundamentalists. Birthdays are not
celebrated by Jehovah’s Witnesses. Halloween
intimates paganism.
The internet is rife with warnings about politically
incorrect words. Lists include Swine flu,
oriental, founding fathers, black sheep,
and senior citizen. There are even
dictionaries to tell you which words will get you into trouble.
I can think of nothing so fragile and
powerful as words. Our culture, delineated by the media and government, is
exerting its control by banning the use of controversial words. Whether this is
a step forward or back is a debate that is ongoing. Few people will deny that
some words are demeaning. Unfortunately, when politics enters the picture, the
choice of unacceptable words becomes subject to influence by strident
organizations. I personally find the politically correct policemen as
threatening as offensive language.
It's been interesting hearing the men's take on Donald Sterling's 30-year-old mistress and how she recorded him. According to them (the Barbershop on NPR), she was just his "jump-off," and "what you say to your jump-off is private."
ReplyDeleteScore one for the jump-off. That sort of recording is perfectly legal.
I appreciate the time and effort this insightful and profound post took to compose. Thank you Bonnie.
ReplyDeletejust blogwalking.. Nice post and have a nice day :)
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